Who I Am

>WHO I AM MAKES A DIFFERENCE
>
>The good we do, we often cannot see the end result but we should
>persist in
>doing it because in surprising ways that may be the only way we show
>that
>"Who I am makes a difference".
>
>
>WHO I AM MAKES A DIFFERENCE
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>A teacher in New York decided to honor each of her
>seniors in high school by telling them the difference
>they each made.
>
>She called each student to the front
>of the class, one at a time. First she told each of
>them how they had made a difference to her and the class.
>
>Then she presented each of them with a blue ribbon
>imprinted with gold letters, which read, "Who I Am
>Makes a Difference."
>
>Afterwards the teacher decided to do a class project
>to see what kind of impact recognition would have on a
>community.
>
>She gave each of the students three more
>ribbons and instructed them to go out and spread this
>acknowledgment ceremony. Then they were to follow up
>on the results, see who honored whom and report back
>to the class in about a week.
>
>One of the boys in the class went to a junior executive
>in a nearby company and honored him for helping him
>with his career planning.
>
>He gave him a blue ribbon and put it on his shirt.
>Then he gave him two extra ribbons and said,
>"We're doing a class project on recognition,
>and we'd like you to go out find somebody to honor,
>give them a blue ribbon, then give them the extra blue
>ribbons so they can acknowledge a third person to keep
>this acknowledgment ceremony going. Then please report
>back to me and tell me what happened."
>
>Later that day the junior executive went in
>to see his boss, who had been noted, by the way, as
>being kind of a grouchy fellow. He sat his boss down
>and he told him that he deeply admired him for being a
>creative genius.
>
>The boss seemed very surprised. The junior executive
>asked him if he would accept the gift of the blue
>ribbon and would he give him permission to put it on
>him. His surprised boss said, "Well, sure." The junior
>executive took the blue ribbon and placed it right on
>his boss's jacket above his heart.
>
>As he gave him the last extra ribbon, he said, "Would
>you do me a favor? Would you take this extra ribbon
>and pass it on by honoring somebody else?
>
>The young boy who first gave me the ribbons is doing
>a project in school and we want to keep this recognition
>ceremony going and find out how it affects people."
>
>That night the boss came home to his 14-year-old son
>and sat him down. He said, "The most incredible thing
>happened to me today. I was in my office and one of
>the junior executives came in and told me he admired me
>and gave me a blue ribbon for being a creative genius.
>
>Imagine. He thinks I'm a creative genius. Then he put
>this blue ribbon that says: "Who I Am Makes a Difference,
>on my jacket above my heart. He gave me an extra
>ribbon and asked me to find somebody else to
>honor.
>
>As I was driving home tonight, I started
>thinking about whom I would honor with this ribbon
>and I thought about you.
>
>I want to honor you. My days are really hectic and when
>I come home I don't pay a lot of attention to you.
>Sometimes I scream at you for not getting good enough
>grades in school and for your bedroom being a mess, but
>somehow tonight, I just wanted to sit here and, well, just
>let you know that you do make a difference to me.
>Besides your mother, you are the most important
>person in my life. You're a great kid and I love you!"
>
>The startled boy started to sob and sob, and he
>couldn't stop crying. His whole body shook. He looked
>up at his father and said through his tears,
>
>"Dad, earlier tonight I sat in my room and wrote a
>letter to you and Mom explaining why I had killed myself and
>asking you to forgive me. I was going to commit
>suicide tonight after you were asleep. I just didn't
>think that you cared at all. The letter is upstairs.
>I don't think I need it after all."
>
>His father walked upstairs and found a heartfelt letter
>full of anguish and pain. The envelope was addressed,
>"Mom and Dad."
>
>The boss went back to work a changed man. He was no
>longer a grouch but made sure to let all his employees
>know that they made a difference. The junior executive
>helped several other young people with career planning
>and never forgot to let them know that they made a
>difference in his life...one being the boss's son.
>
>And the young boy and his classmates learned a
>valuable lesson. Who you are DOES make difference.
>



It does make a diffrence who you are and how you act...Remember think before you act....You just may save a life.

Ns38"
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Reply #1 Top
A very touching story. Thanks for sharing it.
Reply #2 Top
A very touching story. Thanks for sharing it.


no problem
Reply #3 Top
I love that story more every time I hear it!!! It holds so much meaning...
If only we could learn from it-not just read it...

YOUR FRIEND<
KINJRUH
Reply #4 Top
It does make a diffrence who you are and how you act...Remember think before you act....You just may save a life.


Bingo! Damn fine work, Jeffers...damn fine work. Not many people know how true this is.

If only we could learn from it-not just read it...


Yes, Kendra. Very true indeed...

~Zoo
Reply #5 Top
If only we could learn from it-not just read it...


but we cant....we are only human...

Thanks shaun.....

Ns38
Reply #6 Top
It's impossible for someone to read something and learn at least at little from it.

Except for those individuals who give new meaning to the word dense.
Reply #7 Top
If I've ever learned a more important lesson in my life than the one I will share with you then I'm not sure what it is.

To live well, is to do good to others. If you take the time to be kind with people, especially people who need help then you will feel great. It's true you can save a life with a few kind words, a smile, a helping hand...such simple gifts we can give to eachother, and there are no shortages.

~Zoo