Why. That is what I am asking.
You are using Joe User to make a person look like it was his entire fault.
But really you had a big part to. It is not just one person who fault it is for break-ups it is both or maybe it is nobody.
I am just going to come out and say it. Sam it isn’t all Alex’s fault for the break-up even thought he did break-up with. You keep saying he never loved you because he was able to just brush you off. That isn’t true.
Sam he loved you, the break-up was what he thought was best. I think God intended on it happening that way. Even thought it does hurt and he knows it would. He believes you two would be able to through it for the best. He knows something might have happened if you stated together, you know what it would be. The breakup just happened for the best.
You can’t blame one person for this whole thing that is just wrong. You can’t even say they didn’t love you.
You are making it so hard for me, you are both my friends and I love you both. And you are putting me into a situation that I don’t want to be in, but I am not going to have somebody say it is all one person fault when it is not, or say they never loved you.
I know he loved you, you could see in his eyes, but I can’t tell you why he broke-up up with you, all I can think of is the love that was between you to, even though there was a lot wasn’t strong enough to make it over the hill, which was coming up.
If I made you mad then sorry, but this is how I feel and I am not going to have it kept from you, because a true friend wouldn’t.
I know it is going to be hard but to blame and say that isn’t the best way to get over it. It is going to take time.
We need to sit down and talk and get this all straighten over. Hearts might be broken more but the only way to solve this and have no cracks or gaps is to find the right and not guessing on Why?
I hope this helps, and I am sorry that I made you mad yesterday but you needed to hear it, even if you didn’t want to.
Stacey