So after many games of 6.1 I've generally loved the polish, performance enhancements, etc.
But the same annoyance keeps happening, the AI will not declare war on me, at least through the first 150 turns. So other than the occasional pirate attack, I don't worry about the military part of the game. I don't need weapons and defense, I just go made colony buildings because I never have to worry about the AI, ever.
This is on suicidal as a note.