Just like in real life, there's no absolute truth 
High Essence is great for Conclaves, because they can get a building that provides +1 research and mana per Essence (that's apart from any spells!) They even get bonuses to Research, so yes, high Essence is great for Conclaves.
However, the warlords on this forum will point out that high Essence spots are great places to build troops, as you can use very powerful +1 bonus-per-Essence city enchantments to build elite units. So if you are planning on building some elite troops, it's better to build a Fortress on a high Essence spot and make use of all the Fortress buildings that improve units.
Towns only profit from Propaganda, for the extra Gildar. I wouldn't recommend building a Town on a high Essence tile.
Mind you, I am talking about 2, preferably 3 Essence. 1 Essence isn't that special, you can build whatever you feel like, depending on other factors.
Edit: Reading Phazon's post: yeah, never build a Conclave on a 0 essence tile. Sadly, the AI does it sometimes, but it is hardly ever useful, unless you really need the free +1 research per city level.