The Gaming community are a loyal bunch, but if you do the wrong thing by them ... hell has no fury like a gamer scorned
There is probably truth to that. When I read the story about Infogrames suing the kid who modded Civilization and then showed them what he did, I was pretty angry. I boycotted Infogrames after that. Civ IV seems to be a different publisher, so I got back in after that.
I have no problem with Electronic Arts, Stardock, or anybody banning somebody from their forums who thinks they can give you $30 and now you're their slave for life. But still, you have an image problem. You treat a customer bad, even if they are a first-class a-hole and deserve it, a ding to your public image is the risk you take. Somebody like me who's been there will probably quickly realize that guy's an a-hole and I would never hold it against the company--in fact, I'm probably more likely to disrespect the company for being cowards if they DON'T tell the guy to screw off. But that's not to say there aren't a number of other people out there who don't get it. That's where the risk is.
The guy who interacted with Ocean gave no indication whatsoever he was an a-hole. Paul @ Ocean must have interacted with another a-hole and took it out on this guy instead. A full-time marketing guy should have more emotional intelligence and know better than that by now. And that's where I find grounds in firing Paul: a complete and utter lack of emotional intelligence.