An open letter to our young ladies

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An open letter to our young ladies

Ladies, yes, you young ladies out there, we need to have a conversation. A serious one about the way you’ve been dressing lately.

Given my previous article about women dressing like sluts. This brought to mind some of the things I’ve been seeing lately that have been bothering me.

Well, first of all, I’m seeing too many of your cracks lately. Yes, I said it, that part of the body that is not supposed to be exposed so openly in public, has been getting a lot of ‘air play’ lately. I’ve talked about the guys who wear their pants waist at their knees or on their hips; I guess you lovely ladies are trying to give them competition eh?!

What else could it be? If you’re going to wear jeans that is so tight, you can hardly walk or if you do attempt to sit, I can see where the sun don’t shine because of how low the waist of your jeans are, well, it must be a competition!

Just the other day I was on campus at the local university in my area, I saw this beautiful young lady walking towards me, she had on a tank top, a tight pair of jeans, then I realized, wait a minute, is that her underwear? Her pants was unbuttoned, and separated in the way that a man’s pants would be when he uses the bathroom and his fly open, and she was just swinging her hips walking quite importantly down the road, chatting away to her girlfriend! OK, is that a new style now? I wondered if she would go home dressed like that? My guess is probably not!

Just because you young ladies are at college/university now doesn’t mean that it’s carte blanch on the way you dress! At least do still try to keep some decorum about yourself.

Don’t leave yourself open to unwelcome and unwanted attention. The same caution go out to those women who insist on wearing a two piece bikini outside, away from the pool or the beach, with the beach more than 10 miles away! Although the pool is only a stone’s throw away, usually, that doesn’t mean you wander off without a cover up, no matter how gorgeous your body is. I can’t blame you for showing it off, however, there’s a time and place for everything! The lecherous stares you received from the young men around you, well let’s just say, the snickering tells a different story.

As for the views I’ve been getting lately of the ‘twins’, you’ve just got to be kidding! Some of you don’t bother to wear a bra, and I know some bras can be uncomfortable, then at least wear a tank under that garment! Those tops are just too sheer, there’s no way you can say you didn’t know! Not to mention the short shorts that goes all the way up on top of your hips and thighs, and your butt cheek hanging out…there are lechers out there. And as I said, you’re young and beautiful and it’s your right to wear what you want to wear and dress how you want to dress, however, there are a lot of lechers and pedophiles and sick, twisted people around. You don’t know who they are!

So please be more conscious of what you wear and where you are. Sure you can continue to have your own style and dress as beautiful and have fun with your looks, just do it the right way, without having to show too much of what they good Lord blessed you with. There’s such a thing as leaving some for the imagination and not showing it all. You might find this a lot more fun to do than just ‘hanging’ out all over.

One more thing, thank you for taking the time to read all that I had to say. I know you really do care and just having someone point a few tips out to you would make a difference!

Sincerely yours,

A mom who cares

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I too have stayed off this thread since it was posted to the ladies. But I couldnt resist a peek as this article has recieved quite a bit of....publicity recently.

And as I said, you’re young and beautiful and it’s your right to wear what you want to wear and dress how you want to dress, however, there are a lot of lechers and pedophiles and sick, twisted people around.]

I would also like to remind you that according to the experts, most all men have a sexual thought every 7 to 10 seconds. This is every man, not just lechers and sexual deviants. This is intrinsic to the male psyche, and not a learned behaviour, nor does it represent any psychological pathology.

IMHO, there is quite a difference between sexy and sluty. Sexy=class, slutty=low class.

I myself prefer sexy rather than slutty. I will not spend time out with a girl that dresses slutty, but feel proud to have a sexily dressed lady on my arm.

As a man, I know how men REALLY think when we see women. I would never want to spend quality time with a slutty chick, though I would certainly do my sexual duties with her for the sake of it. This is the kind of girl I would bone, then pack up and head out. However, a sexy lady always will have my admiration and respect. This is the kind of lady I would want to spend the night with (if she would have me), and maybe seek out for closer relationship. I would never want to form any kind of relationship with a slut outside of a bootie call.

The way one dresses projects an important first impression; remember all those guys walking around with sexual thoughts.

I hear some women griping about the way they are treated by some men. I ask these women this, "How do you dress? What impression are you putting out there? Are you dressed as a slut? Are you giving the impression that you just want to get laid?"

Women may just not understand the way men think, though I think many of the more experienced women do (this I also find as an admirable quality). This is how men think and we cant change it, and I think you know that.

Normal men have these thoughts and we entertain them a moment, then they are gone. However, there are men out there whom harbor various sexual pathologies; rapists, pedofiles, lechers...etc.

Sexual thoughts are often not fleeting for these men, but rather they obsess. They may stalk you for days as their obsession heats white hot in their minds. As I said, I am a guy, and I fear for women who entice these kinds of men; it's straight-up dangerous.

This IMHO is a great article because I feel its the duty of the more experienced women to pass on this knowledge to the lessor experienced of their gender. Its admirable

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Thanks for your comments Xythe. I like your clarification of Sexy and Slutty, very good!

You hit the nail on the head with your comments. It's what I was trying to say with my article. There is a difference and having someone else say it and give a gentle reminder, there's nothing wrong with that.

It's pretty much a part of being a woman dressing sexy with class. Slutty, now thats a whole other ball park!

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