How is that possible?
How can a person be "in love" and then suddenly fall out of it?
Love, is not something you fall out of. Nope. Love, is a decion.
Three couples i know, THREE, have broken up in the past few days. DAYS! how is that possible? the first couple, friends of friends more, were engaged. They were going all in for it. all for the long haul. They loved eachother.
They met four years ago. They were going out for three. He asked her to marry him six months ago. She said yes. They used to go to art shows, have picnics in the park. He gave her flowers, her favorite kind were daisys, and bought her her favorite movie, Casablanca, and for his military ball they dressed up in forties outfits and took swing dancing lessions. They were "in love". and now they have cold feet and decided to take a "temporary break". "temporary". right
a couple at my school have been dating since they were freshman. They took vacations together, went sailing, cuddled in movies. He used to leave her love messages in the door handle of her car. Ther were "in love". He stopped talking to her and two days ago started dating someone else. He keeps saying its only "temporary". "temporary". right.
My friend was married two years ago. The wedding was beautiful. She was dressed in white, he had tails on his tux, there were lillies everywhere and the pastor was the man who had baptized her when she became a chistian. They started having money problems when he got layed off. He told his friend that he thinks there is a "cute" girl in his new office, but he hasn't done anything yet. They are on a "break" right now. A "temporary break". "temporary". right.
I just dont get it! how can this all be? these people LOVED EACHOTHER! LOVE!!!!!!!!!
what is wrong with our society that we can just SAY something like that and not mean it?
you dont "fall" into love. you just dont. you fall into lust. desire. admiration. joyfullness. love is a decision. its a choice that when you dont get along with that person, its okay. When they are sick, you stay with them. When they cry, you wipe them away. Love is compassion and kindness.
this was not love.
*sigh*
love lasts eternally. When your truely in love, you always have that person in your heart.
forever
